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posted by [personal profile] the_dala at 02:30pm on 10/04/2008
Um. Any of you guys know much about the DAR?

With Patrick Henry in my lineage, I know I'd have no trouble becoming a member. I've always sort of thought why not? But I admit to knowing pretty much nothing about the organization itself (outside of 'Gilmore Girls,' which representation might not be entirely accurate). I like all the historical, conservation and educational stuff on their website, but I'd like to know if they're as conservative as it appears.

So, thoughts? Eh?

(I'm totally not watching the John Adams miniseries or anything. Nor am I wondering why no one is singing or why New York isn't abstaining courteously or where's the saltpetre or how come Adams and Dickinson aren't assaulting each other with canes.)
Mood:: 'curious' curious
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posted by [identity profile] the-dala.livejournal.com at 09:23pm on 10/04/2008
This is good info to have (and ick). Gracias!
 
posted by [identity profile] sienamystic.livejournal.com at 02:16pm on 10/04/2008
Well, I worked for their museum for six very enjoyable years, and got to know a lot of their membership.

There's been a lot of change there, although the ladies still do tend to skew more Republican than Democrat, although the organization as a whole does not, of course, officially promote either party. I met a few rabid left wing ladies, but I'm fairly sure they're outnumbered. A lot of things depend on the atmosphere of your local chapter - some of them are full of younger women, more active, very engaged, and some of them are still full of older (or much older) women who may be happy to get together and fuss about things, and some of them are a blend of the two that may be working very well, or may not. I believe you can join as a member at large, so you don't have to go to meetings at a particular chapter.

They do a lot of volunteer work, especially with veterans, active military, and new citizens. They love their rituals and their pins which they wear on their ribbons and sashes, and researching their ancestors and putting markers on historical gravesites and running small historic houses. The younger members I know best seem to treat the whole thing with a sort of cheerful, occasionally serious, mostly lighthearted attitude. Some of the older members are deadly serious about it all, and some of them treat it as way to gain some power (they want to be President General some day), and some of them are just happy to be social with each other about something that they love doing. I think you can probably create your own experience, in a lot of ways - in some areas you might find yourself nearly singlehandedly running a nice little historic house! If you have any specific questions, I'll do my best to answer them if I can.
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posted by [identity profile] the-dala.livejournal.com at 09:25pm on 10/04/2008
This is exactly the kind of stuff I wanted to know - actual person experience rather than, well, the Internets at large :) Thank you! I probably won't join until I get back stateside (although apparently they have a UK chapter, which might explain why there was a wacky British lady in Emily Gilmore's chapter).
 
posted by [identity profile] sienamystic.livejournal.com at 01:27am on 11/04/2008
Glad to assist! I met quite the range of people there, from truly awesome, kick-butt types who volunteered for everything and got it done with ruthless effeciency, to horrible harridans who would trample you in the hallway or spear you with a gimlet gaze, to sweet but vague ladies who love to chat with you for hours about how nice everything is, dear. As with every organization, there are politics to be found, and they can range from very mild to people who think that their money should allow them to have their way in everything. (Despite the common perception, very few of the ladies are spectacularly wealthy - most of them range from average to on a very tight fixed income due to age.) So...not unlike my time in the SCA, I suppose *g*
 
posted by [identity profile] tricksterquinn.livejournal.com at 02:54pm on 10/04/2008
I don't actually know that much, for all I could join (and my family historically was involved till my grandmother decided she'd rather go to football games in high school ;) ), and my stepsiblings have been involved in state leadership and stuff in CAR.

I think if it appears to you it's probably worth pursuing - and then you'll know for yourself if you're interested, if it's too conservative, or if it's somewhat conservative but you can help shift if (at whatever level you find yourself at) away from that. I'd be very interested to see what you think!
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posted by [identity profile] the-dala.livejournal.com at 09:27pm on 10/04/2008
Yeah, I figure it can't hurt to check it out, and it's possible there are some reasonable people in my area. Or, you know, crazy old rich ladies from Potomac...

(And - HI YOU! ::hugs::)
 
posted by [identity profile] lizzybees.livejournal.com at 06:40pm on 10/04/2008
My only experiance with the DAR is the episode of the West Wing with "I'M MARION COTESWORTH-HAYES!", which is totally an awesome episode.

That said, I also agree--anything dealing with John Adams needs to involve New York abstaining courteously.

(I need some 1776 icons. Badly.)
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posted by [identity profile] the-dala.livejournal.com at 09:28pm on 10/04/2008
He did abstain from the final vote - but respectfully, not courteously!
 
posted by [identity profile] sienamystic.livejournal.com at 10:03pm on 10/04/2008
When I worked there, the West Wing was still using our building for occasional filming - one of our porticos looked enough like the White House that they could fake it pretty convincingly. I got to stay overnight for one of the filmings (the First Lady's birthday party, I think? And CJ walks around on the portico in an awesome beaded grey evening gown) and meet most of the cast. It was, I have to say, pretty damn awesome. (The other big filming thing I got to work with at that building was for National Treasure, where they stayed the whole night to shoot what amounted to about ten seconds of film time.)

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